The aroma of roasting turkey, the warmth of familiar embraces, and the joy of reuniting with family - Thanksgiving brings us together in ways that no other holiday can. For many of us in the Phoenix and Tempe areas, this cherished time also offers a unique opportunity to check in on our aging loved ones' wellbeing, especially if we have not seen them in person for several months.
Signs to Watch for During Your Visit
While enjoying traditional holiday moments, stay mindfully aware of subtle changes that might indicate your loved one needs additional support:
Daily Living Activities- Has their home maintenance changed? Look for unopened mail, unwashed dishes, or unusual clutter
- Are they wearing clean, weather-appropriate clothing?
- Do you notice any changes concerning personal hygiene?
- Is the refrigerator stocked with fresh food, or do you see expired items?
Physical Health Indicators
- Have you noticed changes in mobility, such as difficulty rising from chairs or unsteady walking?
- Are there unexplained bruises that might indicate falls?
- Have there been noticeable weight changes?
- Do they seem to struggle with medication management?
Cognitive and Emotional Wellbeing
- Are they following conversations as easily as before?
- Do they repeat stories or questions more frequently?
- Has their social engagement changed?
- Do they seem more anxious, withdrawn, or show signs of depression?
Starting the Conversation
If you notice changes, approach the topic with sensitivity. The holidays can be an ideal time for these discussions because:
- Family members are present and can share observations
- Everyone is typically more relaxed and receptive
- You can frame the conversation around love and support rather than criticism
- There's time to discuss options thoughtfully
Remember, the goal is not to make immediate decisions but to open a dialogue about future care needs.
Planning Ahead
If you recognize that your loved one might benefit from additional support, consider these steps:
- Document specific concerns to discuss with healthcare providers
- Research local care options before returning home
- Discuss preferences and wishes with your loved one and other family members
- Create a plan for regular check-ins after the holidays
How BrightStar Care Can Help
At BrightStar Care of Phoenix/Tempe, we understand that recognizing the need for care is just the first step. Our professional care team can:
- Provide free in-home assessments
- Create customized care plans that maintain independence
- Offer flexible care options from a few hours a week to 24/7 support
- Ensure seamless coordination with family members
- Deliver skilled nursing care when needed
Moving Forward with Compassion
Remember that accepting help is not a sign of defeat – it is often the key to maintaining independence and quality of life. Our experienced team at BrightStar Care of Phoenix/Tempe is here to support your family through this transition with dignity and compassion.
Whether you are noticing subtle changes or more pressing concerns this holiday season, we are here to help you navigate the next steps. Contact us for a confidential consultation about how we can support your loved one's journey to safe and healthy aging.
The greatest gift we can give our ageing loved ones is the assurance that they will receive the care they need while maintaining their dignity and independence. This Thanksgiving, as you gather with family, remember that noticing and addressing care needs early can lead to better outcomes and peace of mind for everyone.
For more information about our services or to schedule a free in-home assessment, contact BrightStar Care of Phoenix/Tempe today.