When the holidays approach, there’s nothing better than gathering with family and friends. If your plans include hosting elderly loved ones that require special attention, this can add more stress to the planning, cooking and entertaining. Here are some thoughtful planning ideas that can help alleviate added stress and make the day comfortable for all:Plan the setting. There are many considerations regarding elderly guests that may mean adjusting the space for their needs. For example, a wheelchair-bound guest will need more room to maneuver around the dining table and a wider and clearer path to the bathroom. Consider rearranging or removing some furniture to create ample room in these important spaces.
Since older persons tend to get cold easier than most, it’s a good idea to turn the thermostat slightly higher before guests arrive. An alternative to setting the heat higher is to have a sweater and cozy slippers handy to offer your loved one if they feel cold.
Plan the transport. Even if your loved one can drive, it’s a good idea to arrange for another guest to transport them to and from the holiday dinner. This will help avoid the stress that both senior and caretaker may feel about driving in the dark, or long distances.
Plan the meal. The elderly need foods needs that are easily chewed and digested so prepare a variety of side dishes that give them good choices. Also consider low salt and healthy options as well. Another option is to plan a slow service of courses to avoid overwhelming portions and overeating in a short period of time.
Plan a quiet time and space. Offer respite from the day’s eating and entertainment by designating a quiet room for taking a break or even a nap throughout the day.
Plan support for the day. Before the holiday comes, ask other family members to be part of the support team to assist with the needs of your elderly loved one. This will help share the workload and free up some of your time to fulfill the duties of hosting a crowd.