There are several factors that are important to consider when choosing in-home care for your loved one, and we covered the challenges it can bring in Part I of this two-part series. Once the type of service, affordability and protocol considerations are handled, perhaps the most important task is finding the right person to care for your family member. To avoid the trial and error aspect of this part of the process, here are some factors to consider:The right experience and qualifications. The potential caregiver should have relevant experience in the specific needs of the person they’ll care for, and have the right certifications that establish their capabilities and knowledge as well. Lastly, look for length of experience and always ask for references you can call personally.
The right adaptability and compatibility. An exceptional caregiver will be willing and able to adapt to changing needs and circumstances that inevitably occur during care. They should also be pro-active in anticipating needs and making appropriate decisions when needed. A good match also means the caregiver’s personality is also compatible in terms of temperament, communication style and interests. Shared values also helps to foster a good relationship.
The right trust and comfort. Both you and your loved one will need to establish a bond of trust with the caregiver for the arrangement to work effectively. This includes making a connection on a personal level, not just professional. Mutual respect, fostered through open communication and the ability to reach agreement on care as issues arise is also important. Setting expectations is a good start, but being able to listen to each others’ ideas and concerns along the way will also foster trust and a strong comfort level.
The right emotional support. The right caregiver should be emotionally responsive in their care. This means they will be sensitive to the emotional needs and show compassion and empathy toward the person they are caring for. If a caregiver gets easily frustrated or impatient with their client, then it is likely not a great fit on an emotional level.
The right relationship with Family. Teamwork is the goal when it comes to the family of the person receiving care. If the caregiver easily works with the family and each considers the others’ concerns and ideas then it will likely lead to a good fit.