Learning that a family member has cancer can be tough news to take. You may be suddenly thrust into the role of caregiver with no idea where to begin. The idea of being a caregiver to someone with cancer can be overwhelming. To help you make a step in the right direction, here are six tips that can help you be a great cancer caregiver.
#1 Surround Yourself with a Team
Being a cancer caregiver isn’t a one-person job. Think about people who may be willing to help, even with small tasks. Some people might be willing to do the weekly grocery shopping. Others might volunteer to drive your relative to their cancer treatment appointments. Still others might be perfect for supplying you with the emotional support you may need.
#2 Educate Yourself
Learn about the kind of cancer the senior has. Find out about possible treatment methods. Discover what the possible side effects of treatments are and how you can help to manage them. Write down questions you have for the doctor. Don’t be afraid to ask them at the senior’s next appointment.
#3 Take Breaks
Don’t expect yourself to be a caregiver 24/7. You need to take breaks once in a while. If someone offers to stay with your aging relative for a bit, take them up on it so that you can take a nap, go for a walk, or see a movie. Consider using home care to allow yourself those breaks. Home care providers are experienced in taking care of older adults and can make sure your family member is safe and comfortable while you take time for yourself.
#4 Help the Cancer Patient Stay Involved
People with cancer don’t want to think about cancer all the time. Try to keep them involved in regular activities as much as they are able. Look for ways to alter activities so that they can participate. For example, if your family member loves to cook, but lacks the energy or strength to do so, invite them to sit in the kitchen with you while you cook. If they are able, allow them to wash the vegetables or stir ingredients.
#5 Take Care of Your Physical Health
Caregivers sometimes neglect their own health because they get so wrapped up in taking care of the person with cancer. Don’t let that happen to you. Keep your regular medical appointments. Find time to exercise and eat well.
#6 Learn How to Provide Physical Care
Your aging relative may reach a point where it is difficult for them to take care of their own physical needs. They may need help getting in and out of bed, going to the bathroom, and bathing. While you certainly know how to do these thins for yourself, doing them for someone else can be difficult. If you’re unsure how to handle a situation, talk to the senior’s health care team.
Sources
https://www.cancersupportcommunity.org/living-cancer/living-cancer-topics/caregivers/ten-tips-caregivers
https://www.cancer.net/coping-with-cancer/caring-loved-one/tips-being-successful-caregiver
IF YOU OR AN AGING LOVED ONE ARE CONSIDERING HIRING IN-HOME CAREGIVERS IN THE LOOP, IL, PLEASE CONTACT THE CARING STAFF AT BRIGHTSTAR CARE CHICAGO. CALL TODAY: 312.382.8888.